Your Guide to Wedding Rings: Finding the Perfect Symbol of Your Love

Why Wedding Rings Matter

A wedding ring isn’t just a piece of jewellery—it’s a lasting symbol of your love, your partnership, and the promises you’re making to each other. It’s something you’ll wear every single day (even on laundry days and holidays), so finding the one that feels just right is worth the time and effort.

A close-up of newlyweds' hands showing their wedding rings against a lace bridal gown and dark suit.

Engagement Rings vs. Wedding Rings—What’s the Difference?

This one’s a classic question, so let’s clear it up.

• Engagement rings are given when proposing, often featuring a standout stone like a diamond, sapphire, emerald, or ruby. Styles include solitaire, halo, and vintage, with metals such as gold, platinum, or silver.

• Wedding rings are exchanged during the ceremony to signify commitment. Simpler than engagement rings, they complement rather than outshine, made from gold, white gold, rose gold, or platinum, sometimes with engravings. Couples often choose matching or coordinating bands.

Some couples wear both together on the same finger, while others keep it simple with just the wedding band. Totally up to you!

Where Do You Put the Wedding Ring?

Traditionally, in Australia (and many Western countries), the wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger of the left hand—a.k.a. the "ring finger."

During the ceremony, it's common to place the wedding ring below the engagement ring, so it’s closer to the heart. Afterward, you can choose whether to switch them around or keep them stacked as is.

Why Is the Wedding Ring Worn on the Left Hand?

This tradition goes way back to ancient Roman times. People believed there was a vein—the vena amoris or “vein of love”—that ran directly from the fourth finger of the left hand to the heart.

While science has since debunked that theory, the sentiment stuck. These days, it’s all about love, symbolism, and following what feels meaningful to you. 24rOf course, some cultures wear wedding rings on the right hand instead. Do whatever feels right for your story.

Wedding Ring Metals Explained

Picking the right metal affects how your ring looks, feels, and wears over time. Here's a quick cheat sheet:

Yellow Gold

• Timeless and warm.

• Perfect for traditional or vintage-inspired styles.

White Gold

• Bright, modern, and elegant.

• Needs occasional rhodium plating to keep its shine.

Rose Gold

• Romantic with a hint of blush.

• Super flattering on most skin tones.

Platinum

• Durable, luxurious, and hypoallergenic.

• Ideal if you’re after something long-lasting.

Titanium or Tungsten

• Lightweight and rugged.

• Great for low-maintenance wearers (especially grooms).

Wedding Ring Styles to Know

From minimal bands to sparkly showstoppers, there’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to style:

Classic Bands

Classic bands, made from precious metals like gold, platinum, or silver, offer a sleek, timeless look. Their minimalist design suits any style and can be worn alone or with an engagement ring. Available in various widths and finishes, they are perfect for any occasion.

Diamond or Gemstone Bands

Featuring diamonds, sapphires, or other gemstones, these bands add sparkle and color. Available in styles like halo or channel settings, they allow for personal expression and are ideal for celebrating special moments.

Contoured Bands

Contoured bands are designed to fit around an engagement ring, enhancing your bridal set. Crafted for a snug fit, they suit rings with intricate shapes and come in styles like curved or notched for a harmonious look.

Engraved Bands

Engraved bands personalize with initials, dates, or messages, adding a unique, sentimental touch. Available in various fonts and styles, they express personality and symbolize the bond between partners.

A couple exchanges wedding rings, their hands decorated with intricate henna and vibrant bangles, symbolizing their union in a traditional ceremony.

Custom vs. Ready-Made Rings

• Ready-made: Offering convenience and affordability, ready-made jewelry is mass-produced and available in various styles for everyday wear or special occasions. It's ideal for quick gifting or personal use.

• Custom: Custom jewelry provides a unique design tailored to your style, crafted with a jeweler to commemorate special moments. It's a one-of-a-kind symbol of personal stories and emotions.

Semi-custom jewelry balances ready-made and custom options by allowing personalization of existing designs. This offers individuality at a more affordable price than fully custom pieces.

Budgeting for Wedding Rings

Forget the "three-month salary" rule when it comes to buying an engagement ring; it just adds unnecessary pressure. Go with what feels right for you and your partner.

In Australia, most couples spend between $1,000 and $5,000 on rings, with styles ranging from flashy to simple. Choose what fits your budget comfortably.

Think about how the ring matches your partner's style and daily life, and opt for materials that can handle everyday wear. Make it personal and special.

Chat with your partner about what they like to help you make the best choice. Knowing their style will help you pick something they'll love. The ring should reflect your unique love story and commitment.

Hot Tip: Don’t forget to factor in resizing, engraving, and maintenance costs.

When Should You Buy Your Wedding Rings?

Start looking around three to four months before your big day. This gives you time for:

• Custom orders or sizing

• Engraving

• Shipping delays or last-minute changes

Trust us—you don’t want to be ring shopping the week of your wedding!

Personalising Your Wedding Rings

Want to make your rings truly you? Here are a few ideas:

• Add a short engraving inside (a date, initials, or quote)

• Include a hidden gemstone or birthstone

• Choose metals or styles that match your personality

• Stack with future anniversary bands for a layered look

Golden wedding rings with floral engravings rest elegantly on a textured surface, symbolizing a timeless bond.

Ring Care Tips

Your ring is built to last, but proper care is essential to preserve its beauty and integrity:

• Clean it regularly with warm water and gentle soap to maintain its shine. Use a soft cloth or toothbrush for scrubbing, especially in detailed areas. Rinse with clean water and dry with a soft towel.

• Remove your ring during activities involving harsh chemicals or physical stress, like cleaning, swimming, or workouts, to prevent damage.

• Have your ring professionally cleaned annually. Jewelers can clean, inspect for loose stones, and address wear, enhancing its appearance and lifespan.

• Store your ring in a soft pouch or jewelry box to avoid contact with other pieces, preventing scratches and damage.

Should Our Wedding Rings Match?

Some couples love matching bands—it’s a sweet way to symbolise unity. Others prefer totally different styles that better reflect their individual tastes.

There’s no right or wrong here. You do you.

The "His" and "Her" vow books, adorned with intertwined wedding rings, elegantly symbolize a couple's commitment and future promise.

Final Thoughts: It’s More Than a Ring

At the end of the day, your wedding ring is a daily reminder of your love story. Whether it’s sparkly, simple, custom-made, or budget-friendly—it’s yours. Don’t stress too much about tradition or trends. Focus on finding something that feels meaningful, beautiful, and right for you and your partner.

And remember: just like your love, the best rings only get better with time.